(Authored with the help of one of my favourite authors - my mom, Renuka)
“Your permanent address in this column, Sir”, pointed the official at Heathrow. I smiled. I am all of twenty seven and travel a lot. What made me smile was an incident that took place a good seven years ago.
We were on a holiday at Nagaon, a tiny coastal hamlet in Maharashtra. It is idyllic, my parents, my kid, sister and I on a holiday to this picturesque temple town.In the evening, we were taking a stroll along the beach but sauntered off far into a fisherman’s cove. The place was quaint, shabby little huts, fowl smelling fish nets and fish that were put out to dry. Some hens ran about and a few kids played under a tree.
As we sauntered on, we saw a sinewy old man outside his hut. He smiled at us and invited us for a chat. We were very curious and excited and had many questions for him. He took us along the beach to show us his fishing boat. It was a beauty. It was fitted with a kerosene stove and a huge can for fresh water. Soon night fell and we returned to our host.
I was mesmerized. Imagine sailing in that humble boat with Nana. Yes, I decided to call him Nana. Wow! Cooking food on a kerosene stove in the middle of the mighty sea! We would return after catching fish in 48 hours. Lovely, lovely! Just cannot miss this opportunity. I saw no point in begging my parents, as I saw it was impossible to obtain permission for my voyage. I hated to keep my parents in the dark, but what could I do? Columbus and Magellan coaxed me. Papillon egged me on and the sea, it beckoned.
I told them I had a project to complete and headed towards the fisherman’s cove. Nana beamed and welcomed me. He was only too glad to take me along that night. To cut a long story short, let me confess the deep sea at night can be unnerving on board a handmade boat of 15-17 square feet. This when the sea was calm. When the sea got rough the following evening, I was sorry to have ventured out without my parents’ consent, they would not even know where to look for me. And then, it started pouring. Pouring out the water from the boat with cooking utensils to prevent it from sinking. I saw what it was to be “at sea”.
I tried to recall the prayers my mother had always tried to teach me-one for each occasion. It was the SOS mantra that I tried to recall…The one I knew so well. I racked my brains but could not remember a word. I knew then what the accursed Karna in Mahabharata would have felt when he could not recall at the opportune moment the mantra that could save his life!
I turned towards Nana. He was vigorously emptying the water into the sea with resolute movements. There was no sign of panic on his face. For those few moments I was one with the universe, where we all belong. There was no fear, only calm. Here I learnt my spiritual lesson which will remain with me forever—the vastness of the universe, our utter insignificance, the ephemeral nature of life, the resolve of the human spirit and its sanguine effect on me.
I scribbled my present address in the allotted column, the term “Permanent address” brings a smile to my face to this day.